Toby you are living in a dreamworld mate.
Come on, give yourself at least some credit, you're clutching at straws if you actually think someone is going to hold off attacking, i don't know any game where that happens and i have played too many to count. They thrive with players still coming in.
so maybe we should start to look at the community rather than anything that happens in game, that's me done on this matter, enjoy the rest of your round as i am done with Bush.
Maybe I am clutching at straws to hope that people will do things which don't directly gain them anything simply for the good of the game. I can be pretty naive like that.
Bushtarion is bushtarion, not those other games. What works for them does not necessarily work for bushtarion. Stick to the matter at hand rather than using un-named examples which are utterly irrelevant.
People do hold off attacking if they think an alliance has been targetted too much. I have done it. Many people I have played with have done it. Just because you haven't done it doesn't mean other people don't. You're assuming everyone in this game thinks the same way you do, and thankfully that isn't true.
On many occasions in my alliances this conversation has occurred:
player 1: Who fancies an attack?
player 2: Me. Who shall we attack?
player 1: We could hit Discworld again.
player 2: Nah, we've been hitting them loads recently. Let's try someone else.
The problem these days is that with so few options it ultimately results in one alliance getting hit over and over. You don't think you can hit anyone else because there isn't anyone else, which makes it a vicious circle, and it just gets progressively worse for the alliance who keep getting hit until they decide to just give up. People will only play as long as the game is fun. If all they're doing is getting bashed 24/7 and have no time or troops to do anything else then why bother?
If it gets bad enough that an alliance is asking you to give them a break, I suggest you do as they ask. They will be immensely grateful, you'll do your own reputation some good, and you will help keep this game alive a bit longer.
Nobody would ask if they weren't really struggling, and if you just keep hitting them despite that, you'll have only yourself to blame when they inevitably quit. Not that you'll take any responsibility for that, of course. It's all my fault for insulting people on forums.